Bob Mabena is fighting for his relationship with Zandi Nhlapho

Bob Mabena is fighting for his relationship with Zandi Nhlapho

Bob Mabena is fighting for his relationship with Zandi Nhlapho

Zandisile Nhlapho isn’t close to letting social media dictate how she should mourn the death of her ex-fiance, the late Bob Mabena.

Her heartfelt tribute message was received with mixed emotions as some people deemed it inappropriate and disrespectful to his wife Eucharist Mabena.

In the Instagram post, she wrote, “The passion during this relationship, even way after we parted. We loved too hard & fought even as hard. you’ll literally cut passion with a knife. I didn’t know these pics existed. I wondered & asked where he got them from on the other hand again, that was Bob for you. “I’m a nigga full of surprises,” he said. I’m wondering who the photographer was. I still can’t believe it, he’s really really gone?! Wow.”


Twitter users weren’t impressed in order that they decided to ‘called her out’ and before she knew it she became a trending topic.

Defending her right to mourn the way she chooses, she said that the 2 of them never stopped communicating ‘passionately’ about things and their relationship was still good.

Zandi made it clear that she is going to not be bullied nor policed into grieving the loss of the daddy of her child and ex-fiance.

“As I said on my post ‘we loved hard and fought hard’. That takes a shit load of passion or call it what you will! Tell me one woman or man who has not had that sort of relationship unless the kid was a 1-night stand.

Bob Mabena is fighting for his relationship with Zandi Nhlapho
“Fact is I will be able to not be bullied, policed, or coached into remembering the person as I knew him,” she wrote.

She further added that she and Eucharist have an honest relationship so trolls should just ‘relax.’