Hulisani Ravele is the biggest example of self-love attend a wedding Psyfo
Media personality Hulisani Ravele preached self-love and chose to blue-tick the petty mess Twitter unsuccessfully tried to tug her into, when users made her trend just after her ex-boyfriend Psyfo announced that he got married.
The news of Sidwell’s (previously referred to as Psyfo) wedding to his wife Amira dominated the TL on Thursday because the pair shared breathtaking photos of their day and sweet messages of how it all went.
Guess what mate!!!! Officially Mr and Mrs Ngwenya!!!! 🍾🍾🎉🎉🎉❤️❤️ pic.twitter.com/sJgEaIfbhd
— SIDWELL NGWENYA (@SIDWELL_N) November 26, 2020
However, in true Twitter style, tweeps still found how to tug Hulisani (known in her YoTV days as Cici) into Sidwell’s excellent news. this is often because Cici and Psyfo dated for an extended time (about 10 years), since their teenage years as colleagues on the SABC1 kid’s program.
They broke up suddenly but handled themselves gracefully, however fans of the couple never truly got over it … So when Sidwell shared his new chapter on the socials, they couldn’t help but make the Hulisani trend.
Here are a number of the tweets:
After spending more than a decade with hulisani? After God, fear men https://t.co/xyai8l2HMN
— King Zeus 👑⚡ (@IAm_Thati) November 26, 2020
That time he was engaged 💍 to someone daughter for 10yrs😢…. but this one they met yesterday 😭😭😭
— Selibabe 💕 (@Selibabe3) November 26, 2020
I hate how Psyfo 's story is just a reminder of how much of an extreme sport umjolo is. You could be with someone that long only for nothing to happen only for you to get engaged to someone else in a space of 3 months followed by a wedding. Umjolo is difficult bazalwane.
— Lwazi Msomi (@RealLwaziMsomi) November 26, 2020
But the model is actually not an equivalent girl she was quite a decade ago and albeit her name was on the trend list, sis went about her life like nothing was happening.
In fact, she took to her socials to evangelize a really important message of loving herself.
“We got to learn to not always negatively interpret and analyze someone’s actions as a sign of our worth or worth to them. Sometimes their actions are what’s saving them and holding them together, sometimes their actions are precisely the breath of fresh air they so desperately got to strengthen their soul.”
Read her post, which is filled with self-love wisdom, below:
Plus, while some tweeps have continually called their 10-year relationship a “waste”, Hulisani made it clear during an interview with Mac G in 2018, that she doesn’t regard it intrinsically.
‘Don’t you are feeling like he wasted 10 years of your time?” asked Mac G.
“No, what is the waste?” replied Hulisani.
“Here’s the matter, once you set your benchmark and goal as marriage, kids, and a house, you’re not enjoying what it’s immediately. and that I find that for therefore many folks because the goal isn’t at a relationship level, even as concerning each other as humans. It’s until I even have a hoop thereon, it isn’t real. So what are you doing? At the top of the day, for me, a wedding may be a relationship that just features a certificate attached thereto,” Hulisani said.